Once you start sharing your partner with other people it soon becomes clear that you can’t ever have a full and active sex life again without it.
For a start, the arousal level of all the ultimate moments in your sex life are ramped up by a factor of 2 or 3 or more. Do you like watching your wife play with her pussy? It’s ten times hornier if she’s doing it for the benefit of another man.
She likes it ten times more as well, of course, and ten times more again because you’re watching her do it for him. So her pleasure is increased a hundred times.
Don’t quote me on the exact numbers. I was never good at sums, but you can see the point. Absolutely every sexual pleasure is exaggerated by sharing.
Vanilla sex can never the same.
Sharing sex is so much better when you see how much your wife enjoys it – more than you expect and more than you hoped. That puts her over the edge into a level of enjoyment she can’t possibly experience with you alone, or with another man on her own. Sure, affairs are more exciting than married sex but even the thrill of first-time sex with another guy cannot possibly match the excitement she gets from letting you watch her get fucked by someone else. And even though she’s enjoying his cock all the more purely because her husband is watching her commit adultery, she and her partner have a heightened degree of arousal only they can share. The pleasure she gets from him in that way takes her beyond your reach and certainly beyond your control.
That’s the really exciting bit, that sublime fear of imminent disaster.
It’s the same emotion that makes you get back on the roller-coaster after it scares you to death, and it’s addictive.
Fear is knicker-wetting in its own right for a lot of women, but that’s not really what we’re talking about. We assume your wife’s knickers could not be any wetter than when she’s fucking some other guy in front of your face.
That’s partly because for her, the guy is an unknown quantity and fear of the unknown is also an aphrodisiac. When you’re in bed you know what partners are capable of – with you. Watching her with someone else lets you see the things you didn’t know she liked, and understand exactly what she likes guys to do to her, and what she likes to do to them in return. And you can can guess that some part of their shared involvement comes from her heart, and some from her head. You’re her husband but she shares parts of herself with other men that she never does with you – because they different.
That’s scary as well as arousing, and arousing because it’s scary. And it explains why some people aren’t just sex addicts. They’re swapping, swinging and sharing addicts.
I’ve done it all my life, with various partners, and I’ve been married to girls who’d been doing it it all their lives too. They love the extra thrill of bad behaviour, and of course they like a lot of cock. This one especially: –
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